Do you remember the days when you were little and someone would yell “PILLOW FIGHT!!”? It was an automatic game on. You would pick up the nearest pillow and start attacking or defending yourself. I think about this often because my girls yell this now. They are rambunctious little ones and there is always a reason to rough house. Since I am a mom of young children, I have to (and want to) design my house so it can be used, played in, roughed housed and messed up.